Philosophy:

Conflict can permeate all areas of life and affect relationships, job performance and overall well being. Tools are available to aid in resolving conflict without escalating  the costs, both financially and emotionally, to the persons involved. I believe mediation is the most effective of these tools.

Working through a conflict is not about who has caused the most hurt, or about blame. It is about facing the truth about what exists today so that a plan can be made for tomorrow. From that plan hope and positive action are possible.

Whether it is in a divorce,  family, small business, church or civic group, my goal is to aid parties in voicing past disputes in a productive manner  so that positive changes can be made for the future. The end result is an understanding between parties which leads to a collaborative approach to resolving problems, while identifying options which will encourage hope and redefine futures.

Mediation can serve as a springboard for healing and can be the gateway in  restoring hope and a plan for the future.

Many of my clients come to mediation prior to contacting an attorney. They have seen the impact of litigation and seek a less intrusive, less costly and more collaborative solution to their issues. I often hear from clients that the only reason they come to mediation is that the alternative is so much more painful. They have seen the result of drawn out court battles and  losses and costs, both  tangible and intangible, of divorce.